Are you soulmates?4 of Cups + Strength + Lovers
Were you two reincarnated to be with each other again? Yes. But we all have several different soulmates, so it depends on your own definition of it.
There is a great potential of romance and natural partnership and female-male union between you two, however, this is met with isolation and being unsatisfied with inner qualities of relationship and looking outward for other new opportunities. There is an element of refusal and a uncooperative partner not expanding their soul and energy on something great and amazing, mostly due to immaturity and current situations/karma.